Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts

Monday, October 5, 2009

A BIG jazzyFAT DISASTER


So, if you're from Philly or South Jersey, or just a lover of ah...ehem, "Neo-Soul" I'm sure you will remember a little club downtown called, "The 5 Spot".    The 5 Spot was/is a place with a performance stage area upstairs, and a club/bar atmosphere downstairs.  Many greats of our time have started out doing shows here, including Musiq Soulchild and Jill Scott.  I believe it burned down a few years ago but... 

Anywhooo, before then a bunch of talented women musicians had a monthly show there called the Black Lily.  This is how I came to know one of my ultimate favorite groups.... theJazzyfatnastees...or endearingly called by my sister and I, "the Jazzy's"  Either way, I've always been the young one of the group, and so I never actually got a chance to go to Black Lily, because at the time I wasn't 21, and no I didn't have a fake.  smh. Either way a few years down the line after the Black Lily set fizzled out I had the opportunity to see the Jazzy's perform at World Cafe.  EXCITEMENT.  I went. I listened (uhhh, better yet, was entranced) and afterward, a good friend of mine had the bright idea that I go introduce myself and say hello.  

I knew it was a bad idea.  I said bright, as in innovative, not good.  

Oh well, I went against my better judgement, and walked over to one of the ladies, and proceeded to say hello, but I scared her (since she knew not that I was behind her)...and this ensued a chain reaction of her turning around, bumping into me, and spilling RED WINE all over her WHITE outfit. The rest of this story is unnecessary to tell, or rather yet, too embarrassing.  They are still my favorite group. However, I've constantly debated on wearing a disguise the next time I go to a concert.  

You, however really should check out their music, and when you do...think of me, SBG, the big scare and the fallin wine.  You're sure to get a chuckle or two. -SBG

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Its the most wonderful time of the yearrr.....


Its that time again folks.  The white tents have been up for a few days now, and I'm def. more than ready to catch the bus up to NY for MBFW...(yes, Greyhound, riding in style, but who's complaining? ...at least I get to see a show or two.)  Either way, I'm very excited to see what Tracy Reese, Mara Hoffman, and Jill Stuart have to offer...and of course BCBGMAXAZRIA and Herve Leger.  I also am interested in the ARISE: Promise of Africa Collective Show which will feature some of the most current designers from South Africa, Nigeria, and Madagascar...check the quote below...

New York, NY (September 1, 2009): ARISE Magazine, riding on the success of February's inaugural launch, which culminated in a surprise appearance from international superstar Grace Jones, presents the ARISE Promise of Africa Collective star-studded runway show with four of the brightest design talents from across the African continent to Bryant Park on Friday, September 11, 2009. The show will continue the spectacle of what Hilary Alexander of the London Telegraph called “a style and cultural explosion as colourful and diverse as Africa itself.”

I just don't have tickets/invitation to this one...any suggestions?...I'm about to google.  Either way, I have to finish getting my things together and then I'll be off... Hopefully I can blog from my phone...I'm trying to figure out that one now too... 

Monday, September 7, 2009

Happy Idea Transition Day.

Happy Labor Day.  Hmmm, first year in a while that I haven't been gearing up for the West Indian Parade in BK.  Oh well.  Anyway, its odd that today is the day I realize a few things about my life in comparison to my work.  While there are many things that I do complete, there are even more things in my life that I've started, worked on, but have not finished.  This is hard to say.  Who likes to admit that they have glitches in anything?  Its not fun.  Either way, Its not like I don't finish anything I start... I finished school, I finish reading books, art projects, tasks at work etc.  
Its the intangible things I fail to complete. IDEAS.  My ideas are endless....my brain seems like a little "Idea workshop" that stays open on holidays and doesn't take vacation time. It produces a steady stream of ideas, which is good but there are so many hitting me at once; Its hard to pick the good ones...the ones that have a real chance of working, and running wit
h them.  So today, of all days, I'm making a vow to at least write everything down, 
no matter how crazy, weird, and/or intangible it may seem....and hopefully pick one or two to really put effort into making a definite reality. 

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

We will ALWAYS love you...


R.I.P Aaliyah Haughton (January 16, 1979 - August 25, 2001)

Saturday, August 22, 2009

Aerosol Obsession

Recently I find myself obsessing over the art of graffiti.  OBSESSING.  I've been painting murals for a long time, but a graffiti mural seems like a whole different world to me.  So I continue to obsess. I read books. I travel w/ digi in tow to capture new murals and tags. I study fonts. I buy cans of paint and face masks from the hardware store, without any knowledge on what to do with these things.  Im obsessing.  

So, upon hanging out with a good friend, I recently let my secret out.  

Me: "yo, so Im really interested in Grafitti..I'm thinking of getting into it."
Blogzworth:"What?! Do you even have a tag?"
Me: "Hmm...didn't get that far yet."
Blogzworth: "hmm, ok"
Me: *I put on shades and strike my best "B-Girl stance"*
Blogzworth: *shakes his head*

So I've decided to get my ish together and make something happen.  I may not be as famous as Lady Pink or have folks coming from afar to photograph my work, but at least Ill get to try a new medium....and venture into a different world. Updates to Come. 


Aren't you Glad you Came Along at the Right Time?


I stepped into my grandfather's top notch condition ’08 Cadillac.  The air was thick.

DADDY FRED: “Now you can adjust the temperature to whatever you like...you have your own vent control on your side.  I don’t particularly like it that warm, but your grandmother gets hot as soon as she gets in the car.” 

I felt borderline suffocation, but said nothing but, "ok" in response. I just laid back and waited for the air to begin circulating as he slowly and cautiously backed up the car. 


For the emptiness of the land around us, it was a wonder at how many cars seemed to pass just in the short distance from the house to the road. 

As we turned onto the narrow road Daddy Fred immediately began to FLY.  0 to 60 in a matter of minutes.  Not so bad, except we’re going through the sticks…swamp lands….. “deep creek”….ditches on either side… one wrong move and....

I shook my head.  What was I worried about? This was Simons Land.  Nearly all of it, farm fields and forests on my either side.  It had been Simons land for over 100 years….acre after acre. Every cotton plant, soybean sprout, and corn ear.  My grandfather knew every inch of this road…every speck of dirt.  My grandmother knew every person that lived in each of the far spread houses.  She knew who lived in them before them, and even the people who were dead and buried on little plots of land next to each house.  So again…I sat back in my seat to enjoy the  ride from Winfall to Eatonton…to pick up Great Aunt Amy, my grandmother’s older sister. 

Rain began to fall, and DaddyFred and I just cruised. 

Finally I asked, “DaddyFred…Why out of all this land, is there one or two trees that haven’t been cut down, just sitting in the middle of the fields?”

“We’ll (cough cough) back in the days they would leave one tree planted to sit under, in order to get some shade in the summer time during work. They would also need shade for their mules after plowing….Its hard to believe it huh…that we plowed all this with mules…they couldn’t go into aircondition back then…oh no.  I don’t know how we did it…things sure have changed.”

 “Yeah…wow….I understand now, things definitely have changed.

 “yeah, It does something to you…they tear all these trees down, the animals don’t have anywhere to go,  It really does something to you sometimes. But everything  must change…”

-We drive for about twenty more minutes as DaddyFred points out buildings on land that were once  empty fields... we drive up to the corner of a small road… Coke Rd and Oakland Dr. 

Now your grandmother’s sisters use to live in each of these two houses.  Amy lived in this one.

He parked the car.  “Ok, go on up to the house and get her… call out to let her know who you are, because I don’t think she’ll know”

I walk up to the door….which is slightly ajar.  ….”Aunt Amy! Are you in there?  Its Renee?”

Great Aunt Amy (mid 90's) “Im heaareeee!”

A tiny pale skinned old woman hobbled over to the door as I let my self in. She was wearing a dark red blouse, mustard colored scarf, and a tan and brown bucket hat.

“Hi Aunt Amy…”

“well hello ….now which one are you? Are you the 25 year old?”

“Yes, Im Gerald’s Daughter. How are you?”

“Im fine, Im just about ready, hmph, 25 huh...are you married? Now I was married with children at 25."

"Ahhh....no mam, Im not married yet." PAUSE.

"Oh alright, well you can go on now, Im ok, let me just lock the door behind you.

-I leave with her behind me, and DaddyFred gets out to help her into the car-

"Its Fred! Oh hi Fred!"

We drive….

“I was just telling Renee how much things have changed around here… and how it only use to be you, Hattie, and the school principal that lived on this block…”

 “hmmhhmhm Yess indeeedy yes, all these houses weren’t here. …you try to get away from it all, but it seems to just come back to ya”

“I use to come down here, see that house over there? I use to take my car down there to be fixed. Hmmhmmh yess indeedy…and remember that place over there Fred?"  Aunt Amy points to a run down shack, "We use to go there ta dance!”

 “Uhh huh yes we did, Bo, You, Greg, and Alice.  You didn’t think I could dance now did you, Ne?”

(cackle, laugh hahahha)… "Yes indeedy we did dance! ...and that little place over there too, we use to dance at.  It was nice over there, not to many people, more people began to come, but it use to be nice."

"Yes, things where different…and that use to be the liquore store over there on the corner…We couldn’t go into the liquor store…we could work there but we couldn’t go in there to by liquor…. I remember I had my friend Jefferson over to study some agriculture books, and we wanted to get some liquor…so I sent him over there…the next day the whole town was saying, Teacher Simons has a white man staying with him!!"

"Im confused… You couldn’t go into the liquore store because you were black?"  

No, it was before integration but, we couldn’t go in there because the church people would talk about you! Black folks were worse than the white folks….the white folks didn’t care if you drank yourself to death or not….”

“So why did they talk about Jefferson?”  

"Well, he was one of those black-whites? You know what Im talking about? Jefferson was so light, he could pass for white nearly all the time… so we knew if we sent him in there they would think he was white and no one would talk about him.  But you know black folks, they’ll talk about you no matter what. (small laugh)

"….yes sir there use to be a whole area of just black-whites. Rt between Eatonton and Winfall…. They all lived together right around here"

They were so light, us boys couldn’t even take their girls into town… couldn’t take them into Elizabeth City…cause it was against, you know, the law to walk with a white woman, and even though they were black, they looked so white, no one could tell.  

Yes…times have changed, this was definitely before integration.

Aren’t you Glad you Came Along at Right Time?"

...We continued to cruise along home in silence.

 

 

 

 

Thursday, March 19, 2009

When It Happens To You...-Corinne Bailey Rae

A few weeks ago...scratch that, about a week ago, I listened to this song and felt meaning... I've always like the Blues, but never liked current sad love songs.  Sometimes, however,  you need to listen to particular ones in order to release the exhaustion built up in your system. 
...and then its over.




Dont Stop the Music...


I haven't posted in a while (a fact that is soon to change).  Yet, it saddens me to begin posting on a not so good note....

To my friend Theron Shelton, Talented Drummer for 'the Blue Method' Band, and completely amazing, funny, witty, person all around, Rest in Peace.  October 7, 1978-March 11, 2009.
We all will truly miss you.

"I know that you're with GOD and now HE has the BBBBBBBAAAAAADDDDEEESSTTTTT DRUMMER in all of heaven leading His band and you're playing with the best. I love you Theron and I will see you soon cause you'll be back for the 2nd act so everyone keep listening. Dont let the music stop cause that's what kept my brother going and he'd be disappointed if their was no music.  It was HIM. HE WAS THE MUSIC. THE SOUL. DONT LET IT STOP. " -Theron's brother, Randel.